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Thursday, June 16, 2011
Moving Has Too Many Changes
I secured a new job recently and will be making the move to North Carolina at the end of this month. I will be living south of the Raleigh-Cary area for the first year to take on a data analyst position. Then my hope is enter grad school down there, as a program I desire to enter is down in the area as well. This isn't easy for someone like myself to pack up everything and go, but I also need to do this for my own personal and professional advancement.
Of course, the moving process is already giving me sensory overload. There are so many small knacks that I have to put in both boxes and bags. Then there is the cost of renting out a van. There is the fact that I still do not have an apartment to move into yet and will be taking my chances on 3-5 select apartments once I get down there. I'm still finishing the process of ensuring that my apartment sublease is okay. The idea that I have to register my vehicle in a new state is made more complicated to me since I have to change titles over first, and then switch insurance, and then I can finally register for my NC license plate.
I have needed to talk with my parents a lot about this move and the steps needed for it. As a man now in his mid-twenties, but one who had never relocated eight hours away, it's invaluable. I don't want to screw any of this up, although I'm likely to realize "oh wait" a few times. Aspies may seemingly take longer to reach that level of independence, but it's not because we don't have the ability to decipher.
To that point, I became one of those people who needed checklists to get everything accomplished. I have my list of how to pack, people to contact, and general steps that are needed with website references. In the next nine days I have to get many parts into boxes, and took a few pictures so I would know exactly how to pack everything. The liquor stores and some department stores have a surplus of empty boxes which helped me out greatly. I have a hard time with organization and time management, of course, so that leads me to use this list and schedule appointments and time slots to get certain tasks complete. I hopefully can follow the list, as good as I am at making one.
Saying goodbye to people was also difficult. I've been on a mini-tour, stopping in Levittown last weekend to visit friends, and next week I return to Central PA for three days. I had my last GRASP meeting with the Philly chapter, which made me sad because it was hard to admit that I was leaving. Bob and the crew have helped me with my self-awareness, to be sure. Once time permits I would love to get a chapter started.
There's plenty of sensory overload that goes into moving because everything has to happen in one fell swoop. Let's see if I make it through.
Maybe I'll update this more.